I was wrongfully accused of intentionally shattering security at Atheist Alliance International’s conference last year and blamed for putting the life of one of my heroes Ayaan Hirsi Ali in danger;
I am being blamed for tearing apart the Richard Dawkins.net community for being an advocate of transparency and, of all things, reason;
As such, my name has been blackened in the Atheist community;
I am in deep financial troubles with very little hope of rebounding from them;
My podcast host has declined my account due to my financial situation;
I owe the government more money than I can pay under what is clearly a fine of double jeopardy driven by ageism but public complacency and financial troubles are keeping me from being able to contest it;
The theatre group I am involved with is rapidly turning against me for standing up for my artistic integrity to an out-of-line director;
The movie I wrote and was planning on directing fell apart days before shooting was to begin after my lead actor and co-author scrapped the project and failed to tell me until I had already invested more than a reasonable amount of time and money into it;
My romantic life has fallen to pieces and, as such, rumours have spread throughout the gay community in my city about me;
My reputation as an honest man has completely disintegrated due to the rumours and lies about me;
My closest friends have betrayed my confidence;
I have been physically sick for the past week and the symptoms are worsening by the day;
As such, I feel the need to take a break from my public life so I can get my real life back in order. I ask that you do not pray for me or offer any sort of condolence, religious or otherwise. I also ask that you accept this indefinite hiatus from blogging, podcasting, acting, writing, etc. without further question as to any aspect of my personal life. I feel that any questions from my readers, family, friends and employers that need answering have more than sufficiently been answered above.
I will be keeping in touch with a few of my online friends during this time but I do not intend to frequent any forums, blogs or any other online groups, other than one private group, until I return. If you are not a member of that group, I may or may not miss you and you know who you all are.
My blog co-author and podcast co-host are welcome to continue creating blog posts and podcasts while I am away.
No, I have not converted to any religion.
Thank you,
Reed Braden


Sounds beyond bad… Hope it all works out :/
Comment by Spook — 14 July 2008 @ 9:31 pm
Your blogs will be missed during your hiatus.
Comment by Dr. Matthew — 14 July 2008 @ 10:13 pm
Hope to hear from you again before too long.
Comment by Volly — 14 July 2008 @ 10:16 pm
See ya when you get back.
Comment by postymcposterton — 14 July 2008 @ 10:20 pm
I’m sorry things aren’t going smoothly. I hope things work out for you.
Comment by bugsoup — 15 July 2008 @ 12:00 am
Holy shit! That’s a lot of problems…
Comment by Db0 — 15 July 2008 @ 2:01 am
Good luck fella. You know where I am if you want/need to chat. Take care of yourself. *hug*
Comment by null — 15 July 2008 @ 3:23 am
aww…that makes me sad…not just because it sounds stressful for you, but also for selfish reasons. i just found this freakin blog last week and have immensely enjoyed it! you are witty and fun and provide great commentary.
i like the idea of having public gay atheists!
anyway, take care and i hope to have you back sometime.
Comment by tnprimate — 15 July 2008 @ 5:31 am
Far out, life can truly suck sometimes… A whole sucky suckfest of suckiness, in a bad sucky way.
Comment by MothandRust — 15 July 2008 @ 7:45 am
If you come back in a month converted to a religion, I will hunt you down and kill you.
(okay, I won’t)
Wow.
My sympathies – I know how rough it can feel when your whole world seems to fall apart. One thing or the other is easy to deal with… but when all of these things happen and it seems there’s no way out, it really, really really fucking sucks.
My only advice (and I’m not sure if it’s wanted but whatev) is to take each issue one at a time. Rumours go away… just keep being honest and true to yourself and the world around you. Financial troubles can be worked out of, though it’s rough.
But for fuck’s sake go see a doctor. It might just be stress-related illness or whatnot, but it also could be fucking EBOLA.
(okay, likely it’s not ebola but go see a doc anyway)
Comment by jeremy — 15 July 2008 @ 11:07 am
Good luck honey. You are a sweetheart and a talented man. You’ve got every reason to come out on top. *mwuah*
Comment by Rachael — 15 July 2008 @ 11:08 am
This is bad to hear.
Reed, I would be inclined to inquire how the incident at AAI 2007, and the drama occuring in your online life, has impacted – and so much – on your real life. I’d be able to give you some advice if I knew. However, I don’t want to invade your privacy.
All I can say is, sit tight. The rumours will pass, and keep your head up, mate. You’re honest and very amicable, and you know it. So take a step back and look at the situation and keep calm.
And yes, for the love of God, go see a doctor.
Keep you chin up Reed – if you want to chat, you know my email. You have my sympathies.
Take care,
Tom.
Comment by Tom — 15 July 2008 @ 8:32 pm
:( I’ll miss you. Call me sometime, we’ll get coffee/Dr Pepper and cigarettes ;)
Comment by Leslie — 16 July 2008 @ 12:27 am
Breathe in, shoulders straight, forward to defeat those that seek to grind you down. Take care, Beth
Comment by Beth — 16 July 2008 @ 3:31 am